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Sunday, August 9, 2020

What to wear in 2020

What to wear in 2020

Kathleen Maxwell-Rambie 
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    Kathleen is a Hill Country native, writer, speaker and podcaster. She is passionate about helping people bring God into their everyday life. You can contact her at kathleenmaxwell1@gmail.com and listen to her podcast at kathleenmaxwellrambie.podbean.com.

    All of us put on some article of clothing each day, and what we select usually depends on what we are doing. We wear certain clothes for work and others casual clothes for working-out or leisure activities.

    God actually cares about what we wear and He puts together a pretty cool outfit. He actually wants us to put these garments on every day and never take them off.

    Colossians 3:12 (NIV), says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them together in perfect unity.”

    Wearing these virtues will always make us look good, are hand-picked by God, and one size fits all of us.

    Compassion is concern for the suffering or misfortune of others. I know my own personal suffering has developed a greater compassion in me for others that are hurting or suffering. There are many people who need a listening ear, need someone to care when their heart hurts, or to offer comfort or pray for their misfortune. Let’s all wear compassion.

    Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous or considerate. Being kind and considerate is being careful not to cause inconvenience or hurt to another. Proverbs 11:17 tells us, “Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.” Let’s be careful that our words and actions demonstrate that we care for others.

    Humility is a modest view of one’s own importance. Everyone looks good when they wear this character trait. Pride is a common thief that works hard to steal our humility. There is nothing wrong with a feeling of satisfaction with an accomplishment. That is not pride. It is an accomplishment to earn a degree, win a race, or get a promotion. Wearing humility enables us to honor others, making them feel just as valued and important even above our own accomplishment.

    Gentleness is always an asset, especially in times of stress and conflict. Proverbs 15:1(AMP) instructs us and says, “A soft and gentle and thoughtful answer turns away wrath, But harsh and painful and careless words stir up anger.”

    Patience is the ability to remain calm when dealing with a difficult or annoying situation, task, or person.

    True confession: I was recently in a doctor’s office and dealing with someone new at the office front desk. I was also in a hurry and could see myself getting impatient; then I remembered this scripture, and quickly put on patience. It was a good garment to wear, otherwise, I wouldn’t have looked good in that situation. I was grateful I read and remembered this scripture.

    Wearing forgiveness is like wearing shoes. We always need to wear them because people will disappoint us, let us down, hurt us. Forgiveness actually protects us and helps us get further in life. Forgiveness is not about the other person, it is about setting ourselves free, and freedom always makes us look and feel better.

    The final thing God instructs us to wear is love. It is a garment we must wear every day. Relationships are more important, and this means always choosing love.

    All of us are advertising something in our actions and responses. I hope I am always advertising love, especially these days with the stress of the pandemic.

    This week, I challenge you to examine your wardrobe. God gives us the most important things to wear; and when we choose from God’s wardrobe, we will always be dressed for success.

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    Kathleen is a native of the Hill Country and is a writer and speaker. She is passionate about helping people discover their value and worth. Contact her at kathleenmaxwell1@ gmail.com or visit her blog on www.themaxwellminutes.blogspot. com. actually cares about what we wear and He puts together a pretty cool outfit. He actually wants us to put these garments on every day and never take them off.

    Colossians 3:12 (NIV), says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them together in perfect unity.”

    Wearing these virtues will always make us look good, are hand-picked by God, and one size fits all of us.

    Compassion is concern for the suffering or misfortune of others. I know my own personal suffering has developed a greater compassion in me for others that are hurting or suffering. There are many people who need a listening ear, need someone to care when their heart hurts, or to offer comfort or pray for their misfortune. Let’s all wear compassion.

    Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous or considerate. Being kind and considerate is being careful not to cause inconvenience or hurt to another. Proverbs 11:17 tells us, “Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.” Let’s be careful that our words and actions demonstrate that we care for others.

    Humility is a modest view of one’s own importance. Everyone looks good when they wear this character trait. Pride is a common thief that works hard to steal our humility. There is nothing wrong with a feeling of satisfaction with an accomplishment. That is not pride. It is an accomplishment to earn a degree, win a race, or get a promotion. Wearing humility enables us to honor others, making them feel just as valued and important even above our own accomplishment.

    Gentleness is always an asset, especially in times of stress and conflict. Proverbs 15:1(AMP) instructs us and says, “A soft and gentle and thoughtful answer turns away wrath, But harsh and painful and careless words stir up anger.”

    Patience is the ability to remain calm when dealing with a difficult or annoying situation, task, or person.

    True confession: I was recently in a doctor’s office and dealing with someone new at the office front desk. I was also in a hurry and could see myself getting impatient; then I remembered this scripture, and quickly put on patience. It was a good garment to wear, otherwise, I wouldn’t have looked good in that situation. I was grateful I read and remembered this scripture.

    Wearing forgiveness is like wearing shoes. We always need to wear them because people will disappoint us, let us down, hurt us. Forgiveness actually protects us and helps us get further in life. Forgiveness is not about the other person, it is about setting ourselves free, and freedom always makes us look and feel better.

    The final thing God instructs us to wear is love. It is a garment we must wear every day. Relationships are more important, and this means always choosing love.

    All of us are advertising something in our actions and responses. I hope I am always advertising love, especially these days with the stress of the pandemic.

    This week, I challenge you to examine your wardrobe. God gives us the most important things to wear; and when we choose from God’s wardrobe, we will always be dressed for success.

    Kathleen is a native of the Hill Country and is a writer and speaker. She is passionate about helping people discover their value and worth. Contact her at kathleenmaxwell1@ gmail.com or visit her blog on www.themaxwellminutes.blogspot. com. and her podcast at kathleenmaxwellrambie.podbean.com

    Monday, August 3, 2020

    Finding Hope and Encouragement in a Crazy World

    How do we find encouragement in a crazy world filled with isolation, strife, financial difficulties, stress and uncertainty?
    With the current pandemic, I have found that the isolation has highlighted our need for encouragement and hope, and many need it.
    2 Thessalonians 2:16 (NIV) gives us good news. It says, “May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.”
    When we run to God in our difficulties and ask Him for encouragement, He has an endless supply. I love how this scripture reminds us of God’s love and encouragement that is eternal; it never runs out. He will encourage you when you need it, so ask Him.
    2 Thessalonians 3:5 says, “May the Lord direct your heart into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.” We all need more of His love in our lives and certainly need perseverance in these days.
    The other morning, I had something that took the wind out of my sails. I looked to God and asked Him to strengthen and encourage me.
    That day, I went to an outdoor cafe to eat and write. As I was writing, the waiter approached me to take my order. After he walked away, I felt God told me to tell this young man how much he was loved by God, how God had His hand on his life and saw his difficulties and wanted to heal his heart.
    I was a little reluctant to say those things to a stranger; however, when the waiter returned with my check, I shared with the young man what I felt God said. Tears began to fill his eyes as I spoke, and I knew God was touching him.
    After I shared, I ask the man if I could pray a blessing over him, and he eagerly agreed. I shared more things with him to encourage him, and he began to talk. I was so glad I was obedient to the prompting of the Holy Spirit, and this young man said it was very helpful, right where he was in his life, and he thanked me. I was blessed and encouraged.
    Later that day, I received an email of thanks from someone who reads the newspaper articles and lives in Leakey. I was thankful and, by 2:30 p.m., I had two things that strengthened and encouraged me.
    God wants to use ordinary people like you and me to share His love and encouragement with others. I want to challenge you to step out of your comfort zone and fear of man and be His voice of encouragement to those around you.
    You just might be the answer to someone’s prayer and what they need to persevere in life.
    Everyone needs hope and someone to cheer them on in life. Here are some ways we can give to others:
    • Call a widow and check on them
    • Write a note of encouragement to someone
    • Text and encourage a friend
    • Pray with someone struggling
    • Mail a small gift to someone just to bless them
    I have found that in turning our heart to the Lord to encourage us and get our focus on others, we find the very thing we ourselves need. If God can use me, I have no doubt He can use you.
    Be sensitive to Him; believe He wants to use you today. I am praying for our community to come together, to understand His great love and desire to use each one of us to play our part in history.
    Ask God to encourage your heart when you need it and give you hope. And when He does, give it away to others.
    Kathleen is a Hill Country native, writer, speaker and podcaster. She is passionate about helping people bring God into their everyday life. You can contact her at kathleenmaxwell1@gmail.com and listen to her podcast at kathleenmaxwellrambie.podbean.com.